Recently I saw a tweet from someone that I follow on Twitter that said:
"If you follow everyone, you really are paying attention to nobody but yourself. Common fail of Twitter."
Really? This has inspired this post.
I often see folks tweeting about the numbers. The numbers of followers they have, their 3000th tweet, etc. Some of those folks may be genuine and just kind of excited about a given number, or perhaps even surprised when they look and see the number they see. Reminds me of when I look down while driving the car and you hit some milestone like 70000 miles or something. Nice big round numbers right?
Sometimes people joke around about what their 1000th tweet will be or who will be their 500th follower. No big deal really.
Well I must say that I whole-heartedly disagree with this tweet mentioned above. I know it is just an opinion and I can live with that. My issue with it is deeper.
It amazes me how people think they have died and became the Twitter ruler of the earth.
Take my numbers for example, 8,205 tweets, 1,400 following, 1,680 followers:
What does this say about me?
ummmm NOTHING! Numbers mean nothing, but sadly in my opinion many people put value in them.
If we evaluate the tweet that says if I follow everyone I am then perceived as selfish and only paying attention to myself in the opinion of this tweeter. So if I read that tweet correctly, I have followed 1,400 people out of 1,680 that follow me, this must mean I am a Twitter FAIL, right?
But let's consider what I do. I am an instructional technology trainer for my district. I have held countless twitter trainings for the teachers and admin of my district. I teach online Twitter classes with my colleague Ann where they are required to follow us and of course WE FOLLOW THEM BACK in the hopes of showing them the power of twitter and the PLN!
The reality is many of those teachers and admin that I have trained or had take an online course with me have nothing to do with Twitter now and have not stuck with it and seen the "connected life" that I have grown to appreciate and that I think makes me a better educator. Many of the people I follow back may just be lurkers, but so what, I don't care.
So does that make me a Twitter Fail?
In my position I will follow the educators I train in the hopes to encourage them to stay with it. Bottom line. This ain't about the numbers my friend.
I can remember a day when I thought it was so cool when a certain person on Twitter would follow me or someone followed me back after I followed them. Man has that changed for me. I think it is comical how some people on Twitter think they call all the shots of Twitter and they are the only ones who know anything about anything. I like to call these folks the BIG DOGS. They are the ones who get listed in some article as a "Top Ten Educator to Follow" or something and so what does everyone do, they follow them. They have 10's of thousands of followers. My question for you would be does this "amazing educator" that you "must" follow ever interact with you? If you send them an @mention do they ever respond? Or are they TOO BIG FOR THEIR BRITCHES?
This "celebrity" like status they have makes them think they are bigger and better than they really are.
So why not follow everyone that follows you? BIG OR SMALL. What's the harm in that? Can't I easily unfollow someone with the click of a button if I am getting nothing from them or annoyed by what they tweet?
Perhaps when I follow someone that makes their day and excites them to stick with Twitter, and better yet, if they @mention me, I respond back, and since we follow each other they could send me a Direct Message and vice versa. Pretty hard to do that when they don't follow you.
Twitter is about connections, about a Personal Learning Network, you can be as broad as you want in this network or as narrow, there is no law on how you are supposed to do it. Do it how you want!
Perhaps this tweeter I mentioned above was referring to the SELF PROMOTION that goes on in twitter. Perhaps he or she was referring to the idea that if I just go out and follow everyone I am doing that in the hopes that they will follow me back and therefore I will get more followers and feel good about myself and be able to self promote. This of course happens too, so I'm not sure. I would have asked this tweeter, but I didn't because if I did respond to this tweet I would not have gotten a response back. Why you might ask? Well I think I know the answer, but I'll let you sit on that one for yourself. Perhaps I have responded to this person in the past and they have never responded back? Thanks, but no thanks.
At the end of the day this is not about the numbers. It never has been for me and never will be. I could care less about the numbers. If you don't want to follow me, don't follow me, but maybe take a look at some old fashion manners. Say thanks when props are given. Acknowledge all folks. Say please and thank you. I don't think anyone died and made you TWITTER GOD. Titles and accolades mean nothing. It's about people and being genuine. Anyone is replaceable no matter how good they think they are.
There are so many educators out there doing so many amazing things that each time my network grows because I follow someone or follow someone back that has followed me I continue to get better as an educator, learn new things, and get inspired.
What you get from me is what you get. I am me. Take it or leave it, but I assure you I am a genuine person whose head is not too big to fit through the doorway.
What do you think about that TWEET?